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Threesomes might actually be more common than you think: In a 2016 survey of 4000 heterosexual people ages 18 to 45, one-founth of men and 8 percent of women reported previous threesome experience, while over 87 percent of guys and girls said that they would be thrilled to explore the possibility. And this means that there’s definitely interest out there in a good ol’ ménage-à-trois.
But enthusiasm alone does not guarantee a successful threesome.
Speaking with a few friends who had involved themselves in threesomes, I discovered that most of them walked away feeling satisfied and willing to repeat it. However, some found the experience weird, confusing, and risky for the relationship. One said that maneuvering with all those limbs in play can get embarrassing rather easily. So how do you keep things hot with two partners?
Following positions are perfect for a FFM triad (female-female-male), but doable with any gender combination.
Double Trouble (for a Man)
The Double Trouble, or receiving oral pleasure from two givers, is the stuff of any man’s fantasy. Two people performing fellatio on you at once? Yes sir!
How to do it: Your two partners are on their knees in front of you, both blowing you at the same time.
Pro tip: It’s best if one giver focuses on your penis while the other focuses on your balls. But do whatever the three of you like best: one person can take the shaft while another sucks on the testes, or both can lick at once, or you can switch from mouth to mouth. And it’s not just a treat for you as the person on the receiving end. Each giver can enjoy the full range of your pleasure while only doing half the work.
The Double Trouble can be finessed, no matter the gender breakdown of the parties involved: one partner could actually be on their knees, rimming you from behind while the other person goes down on you from the front.
Center of Attention
Much like the Double Trouble, the Center of Attention focuses on one receiver. One giver penetrates the receiver, while the other stimulates her or him orally. For a fair and equitable threesome, each person can take a turn in the hot seat.
Double Cowgirl
If you’re in an FFM triad, you actually can take a tried-and-true favorite and tack another person onto it. Have the penis-holder lie on his back while one partner rides him in a traditional cowgirl position and the other sits on his face, allowing the guy to go down on them. It’s typically better if the ladies straddle the man while facing each other, so they can also lean forward to kiss, touch and stimulate the other female partner from this vantage point if they want, thus keeping everyone in the mix.
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