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It looks so easy in porn, but in reality, the deepthroat experience is rare. The reason is either the women’s fear of the gag reflex or the men’s worry of hurting their partner. Find out how you can venture into the depths in a relaxed manner.
How does deepthroating work?
Deepthroating – or Deep Oral – is an oral sex position, a special blow job in which the penis slides into the partner’s throat as far as physically possible.
Why are men into deepthroating?
Deepthroating gives a man a feeling of tightness around the glans. Research confirms that the glans is the most sensitive area in men. The allure of this oral technique is similar to that of anal sex. However, just like anal intercourse, oral penetration can cause injury if practiced carelessly.
What are the basic requirements for deepthroating?
In order for it to go smoothly, one thing is very important: relaxation. If your partner feels compelled and tenses up, there is a high chance that the deepthroat will not work. Therefore: provide a relaxed atmosphere. Talk about your joint experiment beforehand and pay attention to the reactions of your partner. She should be able to trust you. You too should stay relaxed: “Slow” is the magic word. Take your time and start slowly.
What to pay attention to when deepthroating?
Especially when the penis is very large, the concern about the gag reflex or possible injuries can also increase. If the woman does not dare to go into the full depth right away, you can approach the matter gently together. In order to take the first step towards deepthroat, she can go half-length by taking the penis in her mouth up to a tolerable limit and enclosing the part that lies outside the mouth with her hands. It creates a wonderful feeling of tightness. It is important that the woman has full control of the depth and never feels pressured into anything.
How to prevent the gag reflex?
Deepthroat looks so easy in a lot of porn movies – a piece of cake. In reality, however, this oral technique is rather special and should be carried out with caution. It’s just normal for the gag reflex to kick in when something is inserted that deep down the throat. Luckily, there are certain techniques that can at least reduce the reflex – since even reflexes can be controlled to some extent with a little practice. Just think of contact lens wearers who can briefly switch off their blinking reflex when inserting the lenses.
Experienced porn actresses can momentarily block the gag reflex when the penis bumps into the vagus nerve at the back of the throat. The swallowing reflex is triggered and the urge to vomit stopped.
Some women report making a humming noise during deepthroat. It is designed to block the gag reflex and also gently stimulate the penis.
If the woman inserts the penis into the throat when not fully erect, she can also gradually get used to the irritation in the throat. The act is extremely pleasurable for the man when his best piece grows to its full size in her mouth.
What is correct breathing during oral sex?
Some women report that taking a big breath before penile penetration helps them. Later, the lady should continue to breathe relaxed through her nose.
What are good dry practices for Oral Deepthroat?
It sounds silly, but it works: a banana is the ideal penis dummy to practice deepthroating. Alternatively use a toothbrush, carefully guiding it over the tongue in the throat to the point where the gag reflex occurs. If you stay there just a second longer with each try, the gag reflex will decrease over time. Admittedly, these methods take some getting used to.
What is the best sex position for deepthroat?
The correct sex position can also prevent the gag reflex, but the ideal one always depends on the shape and curvature of the partner’s penis. One way is to lie on your back and stretch your neck so that your mouth and throat are in line. This makes it easier for the penis to enter the throat. Other women use the ‘fellacio in a parked car position’ – he sits facing straight ahead, she bends over his lap from the side.
Whether the lady prefers to lie down or kneel during the Deep Throat is a matter of taste – her choice! Remember gentlemen – always leave control to the woman, so that she can decide for herself at any time when she wants to end the deepthroat.
What are the 5 biggest NO-GOs when it comes to deepthroat?
- Fast insertion only works in movies, but can be dangerous in real life. Always go slow! There is no hurry.
- Never deprive the woman of the opportunity to end the deepthroat immediately.
- The man should not suddenly tense his abdominal muscles during the act, because the angle of his penis changes and can irritate the throat.
- Never ejaculate unannounced! Discuss this with your partner in advance. She might be OK or not OK with it.
- Ladies, neither biting nor sucking extra hard is good for him. Go gently on your man!
Conclusion: A deepthroat needs trust and practice to become a mega-erotic kickstart. At no point should your partner feel compelled to do it. Provide a relaxed atmosphere. Talk about the act beforehand and take your time. If both feel comfortable and get a little practice, you can master the challenge together. Go slow, so that nothing stands in the way of an unforgettable blowjob.
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