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Role Play: A Stage Where Every Fantasy Comes Alive
Over the years, the influence of the Catholic religion morality on the Western world has gradually waned. The idea that any type of sexuality not practiced in an orthodox manner within the marital institutions is to be condemned, has died out with it, too. One of the consequences is, as expected, greater freedom beyond sexual traditions. Having sexual fantasies today no longer evokes feelings of guilt. Also, nowadays sharing these fantasies with your partner in most cases is no longer a reason for misunderstanding and jealousy.
Generally, a sexual fantasy is an imaginary story in which the one who fantasizes has a leading role, and the counterpart, or the co-protagonist of this fantasy, represents an iconic figure, such as the teacher or a friend’s father, etcetera, who could have been the focus of sexual attention in early adolescence. In most cases, these fantasies do not remain abstract but manifest through real sexual acts such as masturbation. In other cases, they can be brought to real-life experience through the so-called roleplay.
Roleplay is an actual staged play during which the participants, often with the help of costumes and special accessories, recreate the scenario of the sexual fantasy. Before making a list of some of the most popular roleplay plots, which have become, among other things, an inspiration for the production of almost all of the short porn films in recent years, it is necessary to stress upon the fact that recreating a fantasy into real life is not as simple as it might seem.
There are many reasons why some people give up on bringing to life what dwells within their imagination. First of all, there is the fear of feeling ridiculous, not exactly at ease with dressing up and playing a part that does not reflect one’s personality. Secondly, some people may be frightened of having to abandon already tried out and well tested sexual practices in favour of scripts that require planning and preparation, in the least.
Such concerns are all valid. In order to overcome them, one should remember that fantasy and play are things we were all born with, and not long time ago when we were children, they opened countless worlds and possibilities. Since everybody, consciously or unconsciously, wants to keep in touch with that inner child that is still inside each and every one of us, the only thing we have to do is to remember the fearlessness of youth, that unstoppable drive to have fun, and that ultimately there is nothing to lose by wholeheartedly throwing yourself into play.
For many roleplay scenarios it’s essential to put on the right outfit. It’s not credible, for instance, to impersonate a judge while wearing jeans and a t-shirt. Furthermore, as any actor knows, to achieve a successful impersonation, wearing the right costume helps a lot in becoming someone entirely different. Sometimes, roleplaying can be the opportunity to take on a role that requires a complete shift in personality. For some people, the very act of making a move on someone towards whom they feel attracted , can represent an almost impossible task: in this case, wearing the right outfit and pretending to be a seducer like Casanova can make you do things you would otherwise consider impossible.
Another aspect, which needs to be highlighted here, is that most of the fantasies are not to be socially acceptable in reality since many of them include sexual abuse, racism, sex with animals, rape, eccetera. In roleplaying you can do pretty much everything your fantasy suggests and not feel guilty about it. This is probably a key factor in its increasing popularity. In other words, by roleplaying there is a freedom of actions which for obvious and rightful reasons are forbidden in real life.
However, the actual reason why so many couples choose roleplay as a prelude to sex is simply that sometimes they feel the need to try new experiences, but with the explicit knowledge that those won´t ruin their relationship.
The examples of roleplay are far too many to list them all, so we are going to present the most common ones.
The mother-in-law
The roleplay that features the involvement of the mother-in-law comes in different variations depending on the relationship one wants to establish with her. For example, if you feel attraction towards her, you can imagine having a secret relationship, while if the relationship is strained, you could stage a quarrel followed by a punishment, instead.
The librarian
In this case, the woman could play the role of a shy and quiet person, dressed in a long skirt, wearing glasses, who abandons all shyness in the presence of the right person.
The stranger
Meeting the perfect stranger at a cafe or a club and then spending the night together and having sex is considered to be an evergreen in roleplay. This scenario is also quite easy to perform because it does not require a particular type of outfits.
The doctor, the patient and the nurse
This plot also belongs to the classics. In case you play the doctor, you could take advantage of the patient’s needs. Same goes for the plot where the doctor has to work late shifts with the nurse. The nurse could also relieve the patient’s pain by giving him some special treatments.
The teacher and the student
Having been attracted to a teacher is a rather common experience. In this scenario one could stage, for example, to be willing to do anything in order to avoid being given a negative note or other reprimanding action.
The boss and the employee
This type of roleplay offers different variations. For example, the boss for whatever reason is not satisfied with the employee’s job and wants to fire her. She is willing to do everything to keep her job. Another play that can be staged is: the employee needs a salary increase and therefore is willing to give something in return. Also, there are the many scenarios related to business trips.
The horny neighbor
Another common roleplay is the one that involves the neighbour. He or she could come knocking at your door, asking if you could repair something or reset the Internet or… whatever you imagine. These scenarios do not require a particular type of costumes.
Once the play is over, one should always think about an elegant way to leave the stage and come back to reality. Some like to cuddle, others, while waiting to realize if the experience was pleasurable or not, prefer to do something that has nothing to do with what just happened, like smoking a cigarette for example. Perhaps, the most appropriate thing to do is to listen to each other and discuss whether the previously set limits have been respected and if the experience has been pleasant for both. By doing so, a couple can build on the set foundation and repeat something that, given its many possibilities, has a version which can satisfy pretty much everybody.
After all, role playing is about fulfilling secret desires and fantasies. It’s also a part of a self-exploration, reaching to places in the mind and the soul that one might not be able to access in any other way. Surely a rare luxury not to be wasted.
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