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Cunnilingus is known by many names, such as munching carpet, going down, eating out, having clam, to name a few. Whatever you choose to call it, the art of cunnilingus is an important skill to master if you want to keep your woman satisfied… And you know what they say – ‘happy wife, happy life’ (even if you guys are not married).
So imagine, you are a Servant or a Butler for your Queen – and treat her like one. Trust me, she will feel special with the following sex positions. A good Servant has no problem with getting on his knees and he sure knows what to do.
Let’s start with the Servant Sex Position. For this one, you’ll need a chair or a sofa. Allow your lady to sit in it like on a throne she deserves. Make her relax and open up to pleasure.
This higher altitude is comfortable for a receiving partner, and way more comfortable for a performing partner due to the reduced neck strain. It also offers great access for fingering, so make sure you experiment with combinations of your favorite techniques to maximize the ‘oh-myyyyyy’ moments!
In order to spice this position up, use the Wrapped variation of the Servant. Here the woman lifts her legs and literally wraps them around her partner’s neck. This allows for more skin contact and better control of the tension. Ladies, careful when squeezing the man’s head with your thighs – make sure he has some breaks for air!
As in most kneeling positions, a pillow on the ground should make the performing partner more comfortable, and likely increase the duration of this fun.
Girls, if you want your partner’s tongue to get unrestricted access EVERYWHERE, we recommend lifting your legs up and pulling them towards the chest. This Sex Position is called Folded Servant and is perfect for offering easier access to the vaginal opening, as well as the rectum. The man should find it much less straining to cover all of her territory down under when the lady’s legs are high up. This is also true for fingering, which can even be done comfortably while munching out.
Chicas, if you want to see what your man is doing, just spread your legs a little.
Of course you can mix things a bit.
Serving as a reminder to break symmetry, the Mixed Servant Sex Position represents any combination of the other members of the family, like one leg up and other down or around the man’s neck… Feel free to experiment and have fun!
Let’s move to the Butler Sex Position. That’s the one with the woman standing and the partner making her happy from behind. Although it is particularly suited to rimming/ analingus, a girl can place the man’s mouth wherever she’s in the mood for, simply by leaning back a little more and inching forward.
If the body size is a problem, encourage your partner to sit or kneel or throw on some high heels for additional centimeters (and sex-appeal).
By leaning forward a bit and tilting your pelvis, you get into the Leaning Butler Sex Position
and provide the man with better access to your clit. Make sure to use a bed, a chair or a wall for better support.
We recommend trying the position with the man having his back against a wall as well – it will give you as a Queen much better control over how much pressure you want.
If you are into yoga and don’t mind bending, try the Bent Butler Sex Position. This one offers the best oral clitoral access from the Butler group. Ladies, remember to bend your knees to reduce the strain. By the way, your man will be sooooooo happy, if you give him a little hand-job while you guys are dining out.
The next Butler position is a fitness workout in itself! The Aerial Butler Sex Position has an opinion of a tough pose to hold for women. But it offers both a great shoulders and triceps workout for the receiving partner and great oral access and minimal neck strain for the sucking partner…
Getting into the position can be a little tricky, so make sure to start out at a lower altitude and have a pillow under the woman’s head to soften the impact of any crash landings.
The last Sex Position is the Lying Butler aka: Forbidden Fruit – perfectly suited for analingus. It offers good access for clit play and fingering.
On the negative side, this position requires a sharp angle on the man’s neck, which can be quite straining after a while. Since a higher altitude is more comfortable, try experimenting with some pillows under the woman’s pelvis.
DISCLAIMER
We are LGBTQIA+ allies with great respect for all love relationships. The word “woman” means the receiving partner as well as everyone with a vagina or an anus being penetrated. Same way the word “man” refers to the penetrating partner, with a penis or a toy.
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